The ultimate guide for men who want to look and feel confident in front of the camera
If you’re getting engaged and thinking, “I’ve never done a photoshoot before—what do I even do with my hands?” — you’re not alone.
At Our Story Imagery, we specialize in helping everyday guys feel relaxed, confident, and look amazing in their engagement photos. This guide is packed with practical engagement photography tips for men who want to nail the experience—without the awkwardness.
1. Dress the Part (But Don’t Overthink It)
You don’t have to wear a tux, but you should dress with intention. Engagement photos are often timeless, so aim for clean, classic, and neutral tones.
What works best:
Solid colors (blues, whites, earth tones)
A tailored shirt or jacket
Clean shoes (they will show in the pics)
Avoid busy patterns, logos, and hats that can date your photos.
2. Get Comfortable with Touch
The best engagement shots happen when there’s a real connection. Don’t worry—your photographer (hi, that’s us ) will guide you through every pose so it never feels awkward.
Be willing to:
Hold her hand
Pull her close
Laugh, kiss, move together
Movement and closeness create authentic, emotional photos.
3. Plan Ahead to Avoid Last-Minute Stress
A few small prep steps will go a long way in helping you feel confident and calm on shoot day.
Do this:
Get a haircut 5–7 days before
Iron your clothes
Remove keys/wallet from your pockets
Show up early so you're not rushed
Don't do this:
Try new skincare or shaving products last minute
Show up hungry or hungover
4. Trust Your Photographer
You don’t need to know how to pose—we’ve got that covered.
At Our Story Imagery, we specialize in helping guys who’ve never had a photoshoot before. We’ll walk you through everything and keep it fun, natural, and pressure-free.
5. Remember Who You’re Doing This For
These photos will be shared on your wedding website, save-the-dates, Instagram, and possibly framed for years to come. This isn’t just for her—it’s for both of you.
Show up with intention, and she’ll never forget it.
Bonus Tip: Bring roses or a handwritten note for a personal touch during the shoot.
Final Thoughts: Engagement Photography Tips for Men
You don’t have to be a model—you just have to be present.
This experience is about celebrating your love and showing up for your future. If you follow these tips, you’ll not only look amazing—you’ll feel it, too.
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